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How We Die Is No One's Business But Our Own
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Only 10 states allow medically assisted suicide, one of the most personal decisions that can arise in life.
When my father was hospitalized on what would eventually be his deathbed, my brother walked him through the DNR form ― “Do Not Resuscitate.” Pop had never heard of it.
My brother explained it and asked, “Whaddya wanna do, Pop?”
Dad didn’t even blink. He took one look at the form and said, “Pull the plug, everybody take a drink.”
He wasn’t suffering. He wasn’t in pain. He was quite lucid. But he was deteriorating, and after having lived such a rich life, he was simply too practical to spend the money on expensive medical procedures ― even though he was a veteran and on Medicare ― just so he could live what he figured would be another few months. He was 90.
The moment revisited me after news broke earlier this month about Lynda Bluestein, who had terminal cancer and ended her life by taking prescribed medication. Except that wasn’t the whole story.