What To Do If Someone Actually Threatens To Harm Themselves If You Break Up

The scenario was brought up in "Vanderpump Rules," though the facts are disputed. But there's a legitimate way to handle it if it happens to you.

There’s a moment in the recent Season 10 finale of “Vanderpump Rules” that has really stuck with me over the last few weeks ― and not because it was juicy.

In the final scene, Tom Sandoval sits down with his friend and castmate Scheana Shay. He explains his rationale for cheating on Shay’s best friend Ariana Madix ― Sandoval’s partner of nine years ― with their close friend Raquel Leviss. Shay pushes back on Sandoval when he says he didn’t know how he was supposed to end his relationship with Madix.