Coffeehouses are the hot, new first-date spot because guys say it’s ‘less of a commitment’: ‘They’re very low stakes’

Things are steaming up at coffee shops.

More and more, singles are going on first dates at NYC coffeehouses rather than meeting up for drinks or a full-on dinner.

Staples like La Colombe have seen an increase in first dates happening at their various locations. Danbi Lee, manager at the Bryant Park location, shared that they see about 10 to 12 dates at that location alone per week.

“Coffee shops, particularly La Colombe and many others in NYC, provide a welcoming and secure environment for dates,” she told The Post. “Their relaxed ambiance and thoughtfully spaced seating foster easy conversation, while the background music remains at a comfortable volume, eliminating the need to raise your voice as you might in a bustling bar.”

As an employee who has witnessed lots of coffee dates, Lee noted that on top of the advantage of seeing your date in daylight and with a clear mind, these interactions can also give insight into a person’s character, such as how they respect baristas and café staff.

“Similarly, if you value organization and cleanliness, take note of how your date leaves the table. Did they tidy up after themselves, return their dirty dishes or dispose of their trash? These seemingly minor habits often mirror how they maintain their personal space at home,” she said.