‘Uncoupled’ review: Neil Patrick Harris stars in light-hearted drama on love, life and acceptance

Neil Patrick Harris as Michael predictably steals the show, that presents a refreshing and enjoyable new take on normalising gay relationships

Uncoupled is a light-hearted, breezy series about a newly-single gay man in his late 40s, freshly out of a long-term relationship. Created by Sex and the City’s Darren Star and veteran Jeffrey Richman, the series presents a refreshing take on modern-day dating, acceptance, love and life. 

The Netflix original series revolves around Michael who is left by his partner Colin after a 17-year relationship. Over the course of eight episodes, the series charts Michael’s journey from being shocked at his boyfriend’s sudden departure, to ultimately accepting his new life. 

The plot is set in the first episode itself where Colin tells Michael (a successful realtor in New York City) about his decision, just as the doors to the former’s surprise birthday party open with Whitney Houston’s I Will Always Love You playing in the background.

Predictably, Neil Patrick Harris as Michael steals the show with his charm. Michael is somewhat self-centred, as is disclosed in a couple’s therapy session; however, his warm nature and quick wit carry the show forward in style. Tisha Campbell as Suzanne perfectly complements Harris in his journey, whilst also having a storyline of her own.  

For Michael, there is massive character development in a journey of self-discovery. As someone who has been out of the dating game for nearly two decades, the world of dating seems to have changed a lot.

From blaming himself for the break-up, to getting drunk and ending up being physically hurt, to jeopardising any new relationship that comes his way, Michael eventually grows into a person who understands how to let go of the past and move on in his life. After initially despising his ex-boyfriend, he ultimately comes to terms with reality and even considers being friends with his ex, perhaps later in life. Michael soon realises that it is not always possible to get answers to all the questions in life, and that it is important to focus on and appreciate what we have , instead of crying over what is gone. 

The series also highlights the importance of friendship, especially after a breakup. In stark contrast to Michael — who has the constant support of his friends — is 70-year-old Claire (Marcia Gay Harden), who was also left by her husband, but does not have any friends to share her worries with.