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It's not a compliment when I'm told I don't sound Black

It's not a compliment when I'm told I don't sound Black

CBC
Monday, August 21, 2023 3:42 AM GMT

This First Person column is written by Evelyn Bradley, a diversity, equity and inclusion consultant based in Charlottetown, P.E.I. For more information about CBC P.E.I.'s commissioned pieces, please see the FAQ.

When I was young, I sat in a parent-teacher conference listening to my English teacher praise my mother for the way I spoke. "She's so articulate. She has such a large vocabulary!" 

It made me uneasy even then. I saw my mother nodding and smiling, but I could tell she wasn't happy. On the drive home, she stopped at a red light, inhaled deeply, and said, "I know you can tell I'm upset about what your teacher said. I'm not mad at you, but those were not compliments." 

I felt validated in my discomfort and, as we drove home, my mother explained the context and implication behind my teacher's words: She was really saying I sounded "better" and spoke "better" than she expected. 

This memory has stuck with me. 

As an adult, I still experience micro-aggressions like this weekly. 

When people tell me I'm well spoken, I can't help but ask, "How else should I sound, and why did you expect me to speak differently?"

Bear with me, because unless you're Black or a person of colour, you'll need some context to understand why I find statements like this to be hurtful: impact matters over intent. 

Code-switching is when someone changes the way they speak depending on who they're talking to or the setting they're in. It can lead to a shift in the syntax, tempo, and even the cadence of how someone puts together sentences and pronounces words.

In the U.S., it's most evident when marginalized groups adapt the accent, tempo and cadence of what we might call standard English. It's a game of mental gymnastics for the people being asked to — or forced to — speak in a language that they do not think in.

But in my experience, the term code-switching is most often used to describe those of the African/Black diaspora. It suggests to me that, when Black people speak — all Black people, regardless of education, upbringing, country of origin, age, class, etc. — we should mimic a particular sentence structure, a modified diction, and an unclear syntax. 

You see, this is why the questions and comments about the way I speak are so problematic. What I hear is an implication that I am performing mental gymnastics in order to speak the way I do. 

The facts are that I'm a millennial who grew up in the suburbs of Atlanta, Georgia. As a kid, I had more books than access to TV. My mother emphasized early and often how important it is to communicate effectively. My college degree is in English. 

The assumption that I should sound more Black, or that one can sound Black at all, is to suggest that I should sound like a stereotype. This stereotype is expected to be the pillar of my Black cultural identity instead of my reality. That is hurtful because my cultural identity is so much more beautiful, complex, and important than simply the way I talk.

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