How to safely share back-to-school photos of your kids

As children return to the classroom this week, social media feeds are set to become inundated with adorable first-day-of-school photos. 

Online safety experts, however, are reminding parents that it is critical to think about what they share on social media.

Kara Brisson-Boivin, director of research at MediaSmarts, a Canadian media literacy organization, says that while posting photos of children can be a positive part of parenting, it is important to have conversations about consent with your children. 

Brisson-Boivin spoke to Stephen Quinn on CBC's The Early Edition.

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How much do you think the conversation has changed around privacy and posting pictures of your children on social media?

The culture has evolved so much that we actually have a key term to describe this kind of behaviour — we call it "sharenting." This idea of sharing our parenting journey. 

It can have great benefits in terms of building a community of other parents and spreading positivity. But it also comes with great challenges as well, in terms of privacy and consent issues, especially for youth and children.

When you are educating families about the impact a digital footprint can have on their kids in the long term, what tends to surprise parents the most? 

There is a misconception and stereotype that continues to persist that because young people are active in digital spaces, they don't care about their privacy. And that is just blatantly false. 

They are well aware of when they think their privacy is being abused, but they often feel constrained in their capacity to deal with that. 

It can be difficult to have conversations about privacy and consent. We often try to support families in having those conversations. Before you post a picture, even of a child as young as four, you can have a conversation about how you're posting it — where and why —  to really demonstrate healthy consent practices. 

Also keep in mind, something a child thought was cute and funny when they were five may no longer be when they're 12. We have to keep revisiting consent.