6 Things Nobody Tells You About Being A Stepparent
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According to stepparents themselves.
Growing up, I was someone’s stepchild. That experience, coupled with the wicked stepparent trope, taught me everything I needed to know about what not to do when I entered the relationship that would make me a stepparent.
But as for figuring out the rest? I had a good foundation as someone who had been a caretaker before, but that’s not everyone’s story. Stepparenting and the pressures around it can be a real challenge.
I’m about a decade into stepparenting and still learning daily — still gaining an understanding of where I fit into things. As I talk to more stepparents, I realize that’s not uncommon. Kids grow up, boundaries shift and families look different from year to year.
Here are the things nobody tells you about stepparenting, according to stepparents themselves.
You might only have a village if you make one.